In childhood a man behaves naturally
Two I am nature
I would like to rotin you three main part, which exist in a man. Looking over them in itself, possibly, you will be able to work out the problems.
In childhood a man behaves naturally. It means that very often his conduct brings the anxiety of mother and it, accordingly, by senses, words, by a look is an especially strong mean! — gives him to understand that he not rights, that he is bad, when behaves so. Some mothers manage to instil a child sense of complete disgust to itself — they avert a child from itself. Denying the natural conduct of child, a mother thus lays on printing to his nature. What stronger seal, the less persons can show the I.
Sense «I — goes bad» from your sealed up nature. And it is Light. I do not get tired to be struck, as far as a man is wonderful inwardly. It I see each time during the sessions of Dialog of Voices, when people consent to become acquainted with denied I. They go to it with fear — who wants to see itself bad? But just like this urgent «bad» I carry in itself light, life, beauty. Senses which come from from them, not to describe words, so they living, bright and deep. When they go out, space is around filled with Life and made more compact as though.
Nature is closed rules — there is correct I. If a man masters rules which teaches his mother, he is written into society and can live in him.
On Dialog of Voices subpersonality which said went out for one woman: «I am her face. If not to accept rules, people you will not see».
Pochemumat' teaches rules? Because it is responsible for the survival of child in the world and society. From correct I senses come from «I —прав» and «I ». The last sense suggests him a mother, to instil rules.
All actions of normal man come from «correct I». Inwardly part which I name a «rebel» resists him. From a rebel also sense comes from «I — rights». In fact you feel right, when protest, does not it?
How a rebel appears? A rebel is rebelling against rules which you are taught at first by a mother, then school and society. Any phenomenon in the world and in a mind always doubled, generating the opposition, - one gives two. The same same takes place and with internal senses and ideas. Correct I generates into a mind wrong I, that unwillingness to follow rules, desire to contrast itself by him. A desire to be good gives a desire to act vice versa into a mind, to be bad is rebelling.
So there is motion of counteraction paternal will. In the beginning it «velvet» revolution which then, at the years, transforms for people in devasting opposition with parents.
One woman which very loves the father disbelieved me, when I said it, that for it inwardly a hatred lives to him. It was even indignant on this occasion. When, passing a session on the method of Dialog of Voices, it met with this hatred, then was staggered, but, on my opinion, to so the end and did not realize that had happened. And it is sorry. If it lived this hatred, it would unite with itself and with a father.